Word: demur (verb)

Associations

"Demur" means to show hesitation or express doubt or objection about something. It is often used when someone politely disagrees or refuses to do something.

• "She demurred when asked to work late." — She hesitated or politely said no.
• "He demurred at the suggestion to change the plan." — He expressed doubt or disagreement.
• "Without demurring, they accepted the decision." — They accepted without hesitation or objection.

A well-known synonym is "object," but "demur" is softer and more polite, often implying hesitation rather than strong opposition.

Substitution

Other words or phrases you can use instead of "demur" depending on context:

• hesitate — focuses more on pause or uncertainty.
• object — stronger disagreement.
• refuse — direct denial.
• express doubt — more general, less formal.

Deconstruction

"Demur" comes from Latin "demorari," meaning "to delay" or "to linger." The prefix "de-" means "away" or "off," and "mur" relates to "delay." So, it originally meant to hold back or delay, which fits its meaning of hesitation or objection.

Inquiry

• When might it be better to demur politely rather than refuse directly?
• Have you ever demurred in a conversation or decision? What was the situation?
• How does demurring show respect or politeness compared to stronger words like "refuse" or "object"?