Alienated
/ˈeɪliəˌneɪtɪd/
adjectiveverbB2past tense, past participle
Definition
Alienated describes a feeling when someone is left out, not accepted, or feels alone from others or society. It can also be used as a verb meaning to make someone feel this way, causing distance or separation in relationships or groups.
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Feeling distant or not part of a group or society
- •After moving to a new school, she felt alienated from her classmates.
- •Many young people feel alienated when they cannot find jobs.
- •He became alienated from his family after the argument.
Causing someone to feel separated or isolated
- •His rude behavior alienated his friends.
- •The new rules alienated many employees.
- •The manager’s decisions alienated the team members.
Make It Stick
- ✓Think of "alienated" like "alone," but stronger—it's not just being alone, it's feeling pushed away or different from others
- ✓Picture a person standing outside a group of friends, watching but not joining, feeling cold and separate
- ✓It's the feeling when you are in a party but don’t feel welcome or connected to anyone
- ✓Sounds like "alien" + "ated" → Imagine being like an alien, someone very different and far away from others
- ✓Think of stories where someone moves to a new place and feels like an outsider, not part of the community
- ✓NOT like "lonely" (which is about being physically alone), "alienated" is about feeling emotionally or socially separated even if others are near
- ✓NOT like "excluded" (actively left out by others), alienated can be caused by personal feelings or misunderstandings, not just by others' actions
Try Other Words
- •Isolated: feeling or being separated from others (Use when the separation is physical or social)
- •Excluded: left out from a group or activity (Use when others actively keep someone out)
- •Estranged: distant because of a broken relationship (Use when relationships are broken or cold)
- •Detached: emotionally separated or not involved (Use when someone feels emotionally distant but not necessarily rejected)
Unboxing
- •Word parts: alien (strange, foreign) + -ate (verb suffix meaning to cause) + -ed (past tense/participle)
- •Etymology: From Latin alienatus, meaning "made strange" or "separated"
- •Historical development: Originally used to mean legally transferring property, later used for social or emotional separation
- •Modern usage: Commonly used to describe feelings of emotional or social separation from others or groups
Reflect & Connect
•Have you ever felt alienated in a new place or group? What made you feel that way?
•How can people help others who feel alienated to feel included again?
Fill in the blanks
1.She felt alienated ___ her classmates because they ___ different interests and talked in a way she didn’t understand.
2.When someone is alienated, they often feel ___ even if they are ___ around others.
3.His harsh words alienated his friends, causing them to ___ from him.
4.Alienated people may ___ themselves from social activities to avoid feeling worse.
5.Unlike "excluded," alienated can happen even if no one ___ to leave someone out.
6.New rules that ignore workers’ opinions can alienate them and make them feel ___.
7.You can tell someone is alienated when they seem ___ and do not join group conversations.